Posts Tagged ‘motivation’

Running is life; life is running.

Tuesday, May 29th, 2012

Running as a metaphor for life (or business) — what do you think?

I’m working on a run-training program right now that has challenged me in ways that I thought I could not meet.  Surprise (most of all, to me)!  I have met those challenges head-on and tackled those sons of bitches.

While I’m running, I often think about my life and my work (and my life’s work:  family).  Facing that giant hill near the middle of my route, I forget about all that and fall prey to the screaming in my legs and lungs.  I almost always feel like stopping or at least slowing down.  That’s when I have to pull out all the cliche mantras:

  • One step at a time.  Just keep moving.
  • Yes, you can do this.  You can, you must, you will.
  • Go harder, faster, stronger.
  • Don’t give up now.  Never, never, never, never give up.
  • Quitting only cheats yourself.
  • If it was easy, everyone would do it.
  • Nothing worth doing was ever easy.

Once I’m back on level ground and have realized that I have not just survived that hill, but actually kicked its ass without slowing down, my  thoughts head back to work, life, family — and I realize that they’re the same as the hill.  The challenges in those areas may seem hard — they may seem insurmountable, but they’re not, so long as I keep moving.

Recently, the tables were turned on me.  I was working, feeling like giving up on this one particular project, when inside my head I heard the whisper, “You don’t give up.  This is just a hill and you will get over it.  Keep moving.”  I thought of the hill, and how many times I’ve been over it — and how every time was just a matter of one step after another.  I thought of the lessons I want my kids to learn from me — do I want them to learn that it’s ok to quit when something just gets a little tough?  And I thought of the message I want to send in my business — do I want to be known as someone who shies away from something difficult?

Since then, I’ve been looking for hills.  I’m actively seeking them out, even planning a new running route to include more of them.  I’ve come to believe firmly that getting over the hills is a practice.  Like any muscle, the more you work it, the stronger it gets.

So bring the hills.

I came to run and I’m not stopping.  You?

 

 

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Use it or lose it? Yeah, but for how long?

Sunday, April 10th, 2011

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, with Spring Break coming to an end:  if you’re taking a break from exercise (which could mean dance, weights, yoga, running, martial arts or any activity), exactly how long does it take to lose muscle mass?

I generally work out each weekday, and take Saturday and Sunday off.  If I’m lucky, I squeeze in a weekend run, but not usually.  During the week, it’s typically resistance and cardio combos.  On Mondays, it’s a RELIEF to work out again — I feel like I NEED that movement.  But heaven forbid I make it a long weekend!  Two days off from exercise feels like no big deal when I get back into it — but three days?  Ugh!  It feels like I’m a couch potato starting back at square one.

Is it because I’ve actually lost muscle mass or cardio endurance over an extra 24 hours off?

Or is that extra day just getting in my head a little too much?

And do you feel the same?

Turns out, it’s probably all in my head.  Experts can’t agree on a specific deadline, mainly because each body varies in terms of metabolism and muscle gain/loss.  Also, different muscle groups gain and lose mass differently; abs tend to retain strength longer than, say, the smallish muscles around the lower leg.   The general consensus is that taking off 10-14 days or more will result in some loss of strength and cardiorespiratory fitness.

So, assuming you’re not taking breaks of 2 weeks or more, it’s really all in your head.  It’s mind over matter once again.  I have a great friend who can consistently run 3 miles, then stop running for a month and then just tell himself, “I’m going to do 6 miles today.” AND HE DOES IT.  Then he acts like it was EASY.   (Yeah, that’s envy that you’re picking up in my tone.)  The thing is, it’s his self-talk – it’s what he tells himself internally that makes it happen.

What are you telling yourself?  How does it compare to what you’d say to your best friend if s/he were in the same position?   I’m keeping this in mind as I face my Monday workout after a 5-day hiatus.   Here’s my script — feel free to borrow at will:

“The fitter you are to begin with, the quicker you’ll bounce back after a break.”  (This is true, by the way, not just a platitude.)

“Be like Nike:  Just Do It.”

“You’ll feel so much better afterward.”

“Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right.”

“Get your priorities straight.  Do the healthy thing first, and all else will follow.”

Please share!  What’s your threshold — how many days can you take off without feeling like a slug?  And what do you tell yourself for motivation?  (Or what self-talk really keeps you down and needs to be eliminated?)

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